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Some dark truths about the shattered institution of marriage in the USA. There is nothing biblical about marriage in the United States. It is just an irrevocable trust with the man as the grantor, the woman as the beneficiary, and the government as the trustee. The trust is payable in full from the man to the woman whenever the woman is “not happy.” Transfer of assets is enforced by uniformed personnel from the government under threat of forceful imprisonment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bryan’s Story<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What has been my experience courting and marrying an American woman? Well, here it is. I was bait-and-switched by an covert radical feminist way back in my teens and early twenties \u2026 over forty years ago<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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The Western “Crock Pot” Myth<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The \u201ccrock pot\u201d myth is built into many facets of Western society. In a nutshell, the myth states that that men are always ready for intimacy, but women have to warm up to it. The premise is that a man must romance a woman all day, perhaps all week, with attention, gifts and physical labor, in order to have even a small chance at intimacy. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Another Man’s Children<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

American men marrying single mothers. Noble, or stupid? Savior, or volunteer cuckhold? Kind benefactor, or ATM machine? Appreciated, or taken for granted? Those are all emotional views of the dynamic. What could or should happen, good or bad. What about the practical view? What really happens?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Gift Gambit<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

For the past twenty years, I\u2019ve been hearing and reading about divorce in the United States being a fair 50\/50 split of property. The people pushing that narrative are mostly women and their male allies in the legal system, government and media. Here is an example of how it works out in reality.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Some dark truths about the shattered institution of marriage in the USA. There is nothing biblical about marriage in the United States. It is just an irrevocable trust with the man as the grantor, the woman as the beneficiary, and the government as the trustee. The trust is payable in full from the man to the woman whenever the woman is “not happy.” Transfer of assets is enforced by uniformed personnel from the government under threat of forceful imprisonment. Bryan’s Story What has been my experience courting and marrying an American woman? Well, here it is. I was bait-and-switched by an covert radical feminist way back in my teens and early twenties \u2026 over forty years ago The Western “Crock Pot” Myth The \u201ccrock pot\u201d myth is built into many facets of Western society. In a nutshell, the myth states that that men are always ready for intimacy, but women have to warm up to it. The premise is that a man must romance a woman all day, perhaps all week, with attention, gifts and physical labor, in order to have even a small chance at intimacy. Another Man’s Children American men marrying single mothers. Noble, or stupid? 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