{"id":2358,"date":"2024-07-31T06:17:54","date_gmt":"2024-07-31T06:17:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=2358"},"modified":"2026-03-10T05:29:44","modified_gmt":"2026-03-10T05:29:44","slug":"toxic-tales","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=2358","title":{"rendered":"Toxic Tales"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"448\" src=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/ToxicBanner.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2359\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/ToxicBanner.jpg 800w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/ToxicBanner-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/ToxicBanner-768x430.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stories, vignettes and accounts of various types of toxic behavior from people or toxic environments created by them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:33% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"218\" height=\"151\" src=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/NobodyForcingYou_sm.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2360 size-full\"\/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=2144\">Nobody is Forcing You<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cNobody is forcing you!\u201d The battle cry of the toxic user. They proclaim it to absolve themselves of any accountability either after their manipulation attempts fail, or in an attempt to seal the attempt\u2019s success.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:33% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"371\" height=\"200\" src=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/betrayal_sm.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3037 size-full\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/betrayal_sm.png 371w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/betrayal_sm-300x162.png 300w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/betrayal_sm-345x187.png 345w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 371px) 100vw, 371px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=3028\">Betrayal<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span class=\"ltr-one\">W<\/span>hen someone betrays you, they are showing you exactly where you stand in their hierarchy of values. They have weighed the options, considered the consequences, and still decided that whatever they gained by betraying you was worth more than your trust, your relationship, and your well being. That is not a mistake. That is a revelation.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:33% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"384\" height=\"259\" src=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/FatherOfFeminism_thumb.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3539 size-full\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/FatherOfFeminism_thumb.png 384w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/FatherOfFeminism_thumb-300x202.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 384px) 100vw, 384px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=3480\"><strong>Father of the Feminist<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dick is a virtuous man. Just ask him and he will tell you. In fact, he will tell you even if you don\u2019t ask. He will tell you ad nauseum. The place where Dick is most virtuous is in his own mind. He engages capitalist America for money, while simultaneously condemning it. Why does he do this seemingly contradictory thing? That is very simple. His unearned moral superiority entitles him to it. He taught his daughter to do the same.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stories, vignettes and accounts of various types of toxic behavior from people or toxic environments created by them. Nobody is Forcing You \u201cNobody is forcing you!\u201d The battle cry of the toxic user. They proclaim it to absolve themselves of any accountability either after their manipulation attempts fail, or in an attempt to seal the attempt\u2019s success. Betrayal When someone betrays you, they are showing you exactly where you stand in their hierarchy of values. They have weighed the options, considered the consequences, and still decided that whatever they gained by betraying you was worth more than your trust, your relationship, and your well being. That is not a mistake. That is a revelation. Father of the Feminist Dick is a virtuous man. Just ask him and he will tell you. In fact, he will tell you even if you don\u2019t ask. He will tell you ad nauseum. The place where Dick is most virtuous is in his own mind. He engages capitalist America for money, while simultaneously condemning it. Why does he do this seemingly contradictory thing? That is very simple. His unearned moral superiority entitles him to it. 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