{"id":2886,"date":"2024-12-04T11:50:30","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T11:50:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=2886"},"modified":"2025-03-22T05:03:43","modified_gmt":"2025-03-22T05:03:43","slug":"why-arent-men","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/?page_id=2886","title":{"rendered":"Why Aren&#8217;t Men &#8230;?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em><span style=\"font-size: small\">December 2024<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<style>\nbody {\n    font: 15px\/1.5 arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\n}\n\n.ltr-one {\n    float: left;\n    font-size: 35px;\n    line-height: 1;\n    font-weight: bold;\n    margin-right: 5px;\n    color: #922B21;\n    font-family: \"Times New Roman\", Times, serif;\n    text-shadow: #17202A .05em .05em;\n}\n<\/style>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"704\" height=\"384\" src=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LazyMen.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2887\" srcset=\"http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LazyMen.jpg 704w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LazyMen-300x164.jpg 300w, http:\/\/fathercodersoldierspy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/LazyMen-345x187.jpg 345w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 704px) 100vw, 704px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">W<\/span>hy aren\u2019t men working? Why aren\u2019t men dating? Why aren\u2019t men marrying. Why aren\u2019t men graduating college? Why? Why? Why? Why, indeed. It\u2019s a Scooby Doo mystery<sup>1<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">H<\/span>ardly a day goes by where you don\u2019t see panels of feminist women on television and the internet, claiming expertise as to what goes on in the minds of these men. Sometimes they will include a token soft-male intellectual ally. The panel quickly ascertains that the root problem is men\u2019s laziness. No introspection as to any possible role government, media, academia, society, the legal system, and women might play in this dynamic. Men are lazy, that\u2019s it. They have no motivation. They have no drive. They are stupid. They are losers. They are nowhere near as smart, driven, competent, and accomplished as women. They just sit around in their mother\u2019s basement (no fathers around, because they are also worthless men) playing video games. They are even too lazy to date, preferring instead to just watch porn. These Liberals have no solution. They don\u2019t care to offer a solution. Their goal is bashing men as they\u2019ve done for the past 40 years. This just confirms the worthlessness of men, and by extension, the magnificence of women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">O<\/span>n the other side of the spectrum, traditional Conservatives and religious leaders also chime in on this issue. Most are relics of a bygone era. They come to the same conclusion as the Liberals. Men are lazy. Men are worthless. Men are giving up. They present the same narrative of men sitting around all day playing video games and watching porn. Then they add the additional shaming of calling it sinful and immoral. The religious Conservatives accuse men of going against the Bible if they don\u2019t marry. Never mind that marriage in the West has <strong>nothing<\/strong> in common with biblical marriage. These Conservatives have a solution however. A very bad solution. Just man up, get married, and get a job. Do better. Work harder. Men were created to serve and serve they must. How\u2019s that solution working out? News flash. It isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">H<\/span>owever, men are not lazy. They are not unmotivated. Men are not giving up. They are just choosing not to play a rigged game in which the government, academia, corporate world, media, legal system, and culture are all against them. If they aren&#8217;t outright falsely accused, lose their jobs, or even imprisoned &#8230; then they have the majority of their earnings taken away and given to women, either through divorce or taxes. They are condemned by government. They are condemned by media. They are condemned in academia. They are condemned in the workplace. Finally, they are literally condemned in court. These men watched their grandfathers, fathers and uncles work like slaves all their lives to prop up a liberal, feminist, woke culture system that completely destroyed their lives and ability to have a family. Their best option is not to play the game at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">M<\/span>en are simply avoiding a bad financial decision. If they work their butts off, they will get their butts taxed off. If they marry, they stand a very good chance of losing everything they worked for in divorce, and then be on the hook for 15 or more years of child support and alimony \u2026 while still getting their butts taxed off. Plus, they lose their home, car, and retirement funds to the woman. You don\u2019t need to be a certified public accountant or financial planner to figure out that staying at home and partaking of the plethora of entitlement programs ushered in by women is a much more optimal path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">I<\/span>f you want men to re-engage, then make it worth their while. At the very least don\u2019t make it detrimental to them. Here are a few big things that might get men to re-engage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">T<\/span>hrow out the entire US family law system and replace it with something fair and balanced<\/strong>.<\/em> No more child support, just co-parenting. No more alimony \u2026 ever. No primary custody, only joint custody.&nbsp; The current family law system is archaic and benefits women only, when women are now able to fully support themselves. They don\u2019t need a man\u2019s money and they shouldn\u2019t get any of it. Moreover, keeping fathers in their children\u2019s lives has statistically proven to produce better results, while single-mother homes are statistically proven to produce adults with a lot of societal, criminal, and health problems. Maybe if marriage weren\u2019t such a huge financial risk more men would marry. Men are sick of being retirement plans for women and it shows in modern society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">G<\/span>et rid of <a href=\"\" class=\"dei_grift\">DEI<\/a><\/strong>.<\/em> Get rid of&nbsp; hiring preferences. Get rid of quotas. Make it all illegal. Get rid of Human Resources departments. They are just shills for feminism and DEI. All you need is payroll. Let managers do their own hiring. DEI is nothing but a codification of intersectionality to justify excluding men, especially white men, from organizations or at the very least keeping them down below those with other traits. Why bother going for job interviews if you won\u2019t get hired because you have the wrong traits? Why work hard if people get promoted over you because of their traits, rather than ability. Men no longer have an incentive to work, and why should they?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">N<\/span>o arrests or convictions on a woman\u2019s word alone<\/strong><\/em>. False accusers should serve the same prison sentence as the crime for which they falsely accused someone. Every man with a room temperature IQ has figured out that it is dangerous just to interact with women. Just speaking to one on an elevator can get a man arrested if she feels he was \u201ccreepy.\u201d Any time the police are called in a dispute between a man and woman, the man automatically goes to jail \u2026 even if he is bleeding and covered with stab wounds. No, this is not endorsing crimes or aggression against women. Let\u2019s just apply the same rules of justice to everyone. Nobody gets arrested or convicted based on just one person&#8217;s word. Also, if the victim is kept anonymous, then keep the alleged oppressor anonymous as well. Men\u2019s reputations and livelihoods are destroyed by false accusations, and they know it. Women pay zero consequences for false accusations. That needs to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">E<\/span>qual prison sentences for equal crimes<\/strong>.<\/em> Stop giving women a pass, especially for assaults and sexual assaults. If a female teacher has sex with one of her underage students, everyone snickers and she gets community service. A man gets 20 years in prison. No, don\u2019t go lighter on men. A crime is a crime. Give women the same sentences. Society does it&#8217;s best to cover up this disparity. Search &#8220;lighter prison sentences for women&#8221; on Google. The top results will be Reddit and Quora posts. All from liberals stating this is false. Reddit and Quora?!? Give me a break. Could Google possibly be any more biased against men? Men see this bias in online platforms and the media. Do you know what it makes them want to do? Check out of society entirely. But no, it must be that they are just lazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">S<\/span>elective service for women<\/strong>.<\/em> If a man doesn\u2019t register for selective service, he is subject to 5 years in prison and a $250,000 fine. He also loses financial aid for school, the ability to hold a government job, and the ability to hold a security clearance. (Like registering has anything to do with a person\u2019s reliability to hold a clearance.) He also loses the right to vote. None of this applies to women. However, women are equal and can do whatever men do. They\u2019ve told us that for over 40 years now. They should also be equal in signing up for selective service.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong><span class=\"ltr-one\">S<\/span>top bashing and feminizing men throughout the entire education process<\/strong><\/em>, from grade school through university. Schools and universities have become Leftist indoctrination camps, especially for feminism, pushing female superiority over men and condemning men as toxic and evil. Boys in grade school are called toxic and punished for playing with toy guns, rough housing, or being competitive. &nbsp;University \u201cstudies\u201d blame every problem in the world on men. Men are required to either champion their emasculation or keep their mouths shut in the face of this constant stream of vitriol. Why would any sane man stick around in an institution where he is forced every day to confess to being an evil piece of garbage at the behest of women who create entire programs of study around themselves? Moreover, most of the degrees from these institutions are utterly worthless. Just try to get a job in the field of women\u2019s studies or art history.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span class=\"ltr-one\">M<\/span>en in the West are done. Feminists are at fault. Men won\u2019t marry and they will work less and less. It\u2019s over for at least the next two generations \u2026 if it ever comes back. That\u2019s your reality. Celebrate now, while you can. The infrastructure will begin crumbling as fewer men do the dirty, dangerous jobs women won\u2019t. Then, as you die out from the plummeting birth rate, your culture will be replaced by foreigners who still have children. That is your future, if you live to see it. Hope it was all worth it for your unhinged and vengeful ideology.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1 &#8211; Credit to Aaron Clarey, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@AaronClarey\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@AaronClarey<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>December 2024 Why aren\u2019t men working? Why aren\u2019t men dating? Why aren\u2019t men marrying. Why aren\u2019t men graduating college? Why? Why? Why? Why, indeed. It\u2019s a Scooby Doo mystery1. Hardly a day goes by where you don\u2019t see panels of feminist women on television and the internet, claiming expertise as to what goes on in the minds of these men. Sometimes they will include a token soft-male intellectual ally. The panel quickly ascertains that the root problem is men\u2019s laziness. No introspection as to any possible role government, media, academia, society, the legal system, and women might play in this dynamic. Men are lazy, that\u2019s it. They have no motivation. They have no drive. They are stupid. They are losers. They are nowhere near as smart, driven, competent, and accomplished as women. They just sit around in their mother\u2019s basement (no fathers around, because they are also worthless men) playing video games. They are even too lazy to date, preferring instead to just watch porn. These Liberals have no solution. They don\u2019t care to offer a solution. Their goal is bashing men as they\u2019ve done for the past 40 years. 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